Sexual betrayal coaching is designed specifically for women navigating the profound trauma, confusion, and emotional upheaval that follows the discovery or disclosure of their partners sexual acting out inside marriage including pornography addiction, or other secretive sexual behaviors which violate the marriage relationship. This specialized coaching is highly suitable for wives experiencing the shock, hypervigilance, and emotional rollercoaster of discovery or disclosure of any and all compulsive sexual behaviors in your marriage. If you feel paralyzed by fear, indecision, or are struggling to figure out what to do next, whether to stay, leave, or needing intentional time and space away from your spouse, this type of coaching will be an excellent resource to help you. If you are in the midst of the fall-out of discovery and are needing immediate stability and crisis management, coaching can provide the support you need to process. If you feel like you are part way through your discovery or have already been through a Full Therapeutic Disclosure with your husband and are ready to move forward, rebuild shattered self-esteem, and establish firm, healthy boundaries, you will benefit immensely from this type of coaching intervention. For women who want to focus strictly on their own personal stability and recovery, independent of their partner's choices and maybe staying married or not, through targeted guidance and practical tools, you will find that this coaching provides a structured, non-judgmental space to move from the initial crisis of betrayal toward emotional safety, clarity, and long-term empowerment.

If you feel lost, alone, overwhelmed or like you just dont know what to do in the wake of discovery of some sort of sexual betrayal in your marriage, then you will need the right help. Traditional marrriage counselling is often not the best form of intervention for understanding and traeting truama induced help for dealing with sexual addictionCoaching is often the first, best step in seeking some form of solid emotional and psychological support once this type of crisis has hit you. If it's a discovery that your partner has been unfaithful in some way; either an emotional or physical affair or both, betrayal recovery coaching is for you. Maybe your husband has been hiding a pornography habit, visiting dating sites, chat rooms or been frequenting strip clubs or using prostitutes and you have either had some knowledge or no knowledge at all. If you have had a recent discovery or a disclosure or multiple discoveries/disclosures of any level of sexual acting out by your husband, then this will be the best type of support to address these issues from a qualified, professional  trauma-informed perspective.

Yes. As a certified ACC ICF Coach, I abide solely by the ICF Code of Ethics, which stipulates that all personal client information and any and all disclosures of personal details is kept within the coaching platform and is to be stored securely and kept strictly private and confidential at all times.

There are multiple benefits when you commit to the process and to doing the ongoing work of recovery for yourself. The right coaching with the right Coach, changes lives for the better.
When done professionally, ethically and sensitively, the recovery process has incredible potential to impact you powerfully in a tangible and life changing way. You want change and freedom that you can feel and that others can see. The positive professional and experienced care you'll recieve from sound, grounded coaching support will be the difference between feeling stuck in a trauma state or in a state of shame and fear, and actually seeing and experiencing real and lasting healing.

Coaching moves at the pace you are comfortable with and that you are ready for. What you give to your sessions is what you will create Each service is individually tailored to suit your needs, preferences and goals so these generally direct the length of time you will commit to the process.

I recommend at least 12 to 24 weeks of life coaching as a minimum in order for you to experience the benefits. I do act as a consultant coach through one-off coaching sessions if there is a specific requirement for this type of service. With trauma and crisis coaching, separation and divorce care or restorative marriage support, services are usually on-going until the crisis reaches resolution point and you as the client feel sufficiently helped and ready to move on.

Caring for yourself throughout crisis and whilst going through trauma is paramount to good recovery. If you have been diagnosed by a therapist or clinician, or suspect you may have PTSD, looking after your mental and physical health needs to become a genuine priority.

The right nutrional supplementation will help you to manage high cortisol and adrenalin levels which are activated by the the very real negative impact trauma has on your body, brain and nervous system. A dysregulated and activated nervous system cannot shut down properly and therefore needs support as you work on cleaner eating and paying attention to your somatic state and how you feel in your own body. An individual in trauma state often neglects the brain body connection which plays a major role in recovery, so as part of my Recovery Coaching services, I offer healthy nutAIM products to help you support your nervous sytem and your long-term recovery. The AIM Companies nutritional supplementation products are the best I have found, they are potent and very clean and I have personally used them for more than 8 years now.

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